CN: needles/sharps

"we ended up kneeling opposite one another in a dungeon, clad in latex and fishnets, trembling with fear and excitement as our Sir for the afternoon stapled a cable tie to my tongue."

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https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/sharps-kink/ #kink

Did you know that you can just ask for what you want?

If you're not enjoying something, you can ask for something else (or even nothing at all)?

It may feel daunting, especially if (like me) you have RSD and a brain that tells you you're going to 'cause offense' or 'be awkward' or 'make a scene', or that maybe you should feel lucky you're getting anything at all and you should just enjoy what you're given - but no, this is not the way!

Kabukichou Bad Trip
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Nagisa Eiji
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CW: BDSM, power plays, lost of agency, kink, Boy's love

A kind Internet stranger recommended I read this manga after sharing a list of opinions in the queer manga space. She did preface it with a warning about BDSM and power play.

I have no knowledge of the sex scene; kink stuff doubly so, but I am endlessly fascinated by it. I kind of think about sex in a similar way I imagine dichromats view full-spectrum colour, or how the hearing-impaired view sound. Does that sound right? Because sex is so natural to many and dictates a lot of daily life sotto voce and, without a basic understanding, life is complicated by not fitting in.

Miyama has the ability to read people and has used this to great affect; taking him from a simple country boy to being a great host in the city.

T/N: In Japan, a host/hostess/hostex is a high-end entertainer. Hostess clubs are frequented by fans of the hosts, ordinary businessfolk, and people wanting the cabaret nightlife. A good host, one who is receptive, responsive, and most importantly attractive, can earn a lot of money and underground fame.

Miyama, like most hosts, uses a nom de guerre. The name he chose comes from a fashion model and idol who Miyama worships: Mizuki.

The two bump into one another anime-first and form a lustful friendship, but while Miyama-kun is grateful for the experiences his new friend can bring, he's scared of his idol. Miyama can see Mizuki's desire: To dominate Miyama in very colourful, assertive, aggressive ways.

After a clumsy but honest conversation, the two talk about and experiment with the dom-sub relationship. The idea of handing my agency over to another is scary and quite repellent, but the way it's depicted in this manga, I totally understand how trusting partners can form this type of bond. The care, love, and attention was eye-opening to someone who knew little of this lifestyle beyond dismissive hand-waving.

The art is gorgeous, the exploration of desire and compromise, and the compassion shown makes this a scary read, but a damned good one.

Compared to my usual tastes, this is really out-there. And I'm glad I pushed boundaries a little.